Friendship Is Key

People struggle to believe my husband and I are still best friends after ministering together for over 33 years and never spending a night apart.

But one of the greatest strengths of our marriage is our friendship!

Joe and I have always prioritized each other over everyone and everything else, including our ministry, children, and extended family. The only exception is Jesus.

One of the key components of our thriving friendship is communication. Joe and I talk regularly to keep each other updated on life events and share our feelings, needs, wants, and dreams. We also confront each other about problems in our marriage to keep roots of bitterness and resentment from forming.

Another vital element of our friendship is having fun together. We both love the outdoors, so we spend time adventuring, sightseeing, fishing, hiking, sunbathing, and doing other fun activities when possible.

But if I had to boil it down to one thing, my husband is my best friend because he is my safe haven. Joe has always accepted me for who I am and allowed me to be my authentic self without censorship. The unconditional love and emotional safety he provides are things I treasure beyond measure.

What about you? What things build or hinder you and your spouse’s friendship? Let me know in the comments—especially if you need prayer.