The Two "C's" Of A Successful Marriage
For marriages to survive and thrive, they must possess two foundational components. These elements will enable and equip spouses to withstand any challenge they face, plus help ward off potential threats that could otherwise dismantle their covenant relationship. These two crucial components are:
Commitment
Communication
When a couple is fully committed to their marriage for life, they will inevitably work through every difficult circumstance, situation, or obstacle — no matter how complicated or insurmountable it seems. Without this undying commitment from both partners, divorce is left as a viable option, which undermines the determination and motivation required to overcome marriage’s inescapable challenges.
When couples practice open and honest communication, they solve problems easier, connect on deeper levels, and grow their bond as one-flesh. Part of healthy communication involves each partner respectfully expressing themselves as well as giving their spouse’s viewpoints the same consideration they give their own. With mutual respect, validation, and concern for each other’s thoughts and opinions, resolution and compromises are more easily achieved. If there is a refusal to discuss problems or if a spouse devalues or discounts their partner’s input, a breakdown of trust and respect will occur. The result will be division, continued conflict, resentment, and detachment from each other.